Husband demands alimony from ex-wife who tortured him

KalaiChelvanYes. Mr.Kalaichelvan from Tamil Nadu has created history!

It is customary in India for estranged wives to demand huge alimony and maintenance from husbands and the courts are generally sympathetic and favourable to wives in these matters, as in child custody disputes.

But Mr. Kalaichelvan underwent extreme amount of torture in the hands of his former wife which had rendered him a “pauper”.

A correction in the newspaper report: Mr. Kalaichelvan was in jail for 24 days and not as reported.

Read on:

Deccan Chronicle reports:-

Kalaichelvan News StoryIn an unusual case, a 43-year-old civil engineer has approached the family courts here seeking alimony Rs 25 lakh from his ex-wife, an assistant professor at a reputed university, whom he had divorced a year ago.

In his petition, Mr Kalaiselvan, claimed that he had lost his lucrative job in Kuwait and all his savings because of the legal battle over divorce and custody of their child.

“My ex-wife Malarvizhi was unemployed when I married her in 1997 while I had a decent job abroad,” he said. “My life was ruined after the marriage turned sour and today I am literally in the streets but Malar is well settled. The court has accepted my case and the first hearing will be held on December 15.”

Although the couple separated within a year after the marriage, Malarvizhi and Kalaiselvam applied for a divorce only in 2002.

“Between 2002 and 2006, I had to come to India on at least 20 occasions to fight the case,” said Mr Kalaiselvan. “During this period, I lost my job.”

Mr Kalaiselvan said that his wife and in-laws had also filed a case against him under the Dowry Harassment Act and that he spent three months in jail. “My divorce came through last year and I even got custody of the child,” he said. “But in the process I became a pauper.”

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  1. sir,
    i m also a civil engineer, and facing the same problem as you.

    please fight the case, and set a example.

    avadhesh, nagpur…

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  2. sir,
    pls do send me the petition copy as filed, i’m facing the same situation, i had a nice job in doha, qatar
    hope justice pervails and we can be a part of it

    pls sir…send me a personalised mail.
    awaiting

    thanks
    god bless.

    1. I was in Doha, Qatar before marriage. Due to physical and mental torture of my wife, Lost the job in 70 days after wife arrived in Doha.Am in India under bail now. Please advise any succor.

  3. Hats-off to you Sir. I hope you get posiitvie results apart from being a TRUE HERO for we Men.You give us hope.

    ThankYou !!

  4. I have the same problem here, i have been tortured daily by my wife . I have been living with this from past 10 yrs now i have lost patience. Kindly let me know your email id so that i know the process of this application .

    Best of luck, may god help you to succeed

  5. Respected sir, I am also from Tamil nadu. Be a role model to future men. your name will be rememmber always because it will be a lesson to women who play in the name of marriage. keep it up.

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  6. Dear Kalaiselvan

    You area brave man. I saw your videos and how you were treated in the police station. I do not know how you cope up with all these things emotionally. I felt very bad when I saw your videos. Wish you all success and happiness.
    I am also from Chennai. Now I am in Canada. I miss my son. But I have not yet gone to a police station but the threat is always there.

  7. Hat’s off!!! your presence in SIF is too good !!! Thanks for helping others to fight against false 498A cases!!! Wish your journey and future accompishments a grand success!!

  8. Dear kalaiselvan,
    Iam in the same situation and please provide tips, how to avoid this kind of false cases against innocent men. Please provide your email address. Iam in US please reply.

  9. Thalaiva ungaluku peinal nanga irkukom poraduvom vetri peruvom varalaru pataipom

    Friend we back you on this we will fight together and win and make History

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  11. dear sir,

    I am from Theni, in Thenilnadu. I am daily toruched mentlayy by my wife without any meaning. Last three and Haslf year I am leading a very mesearable life with her. Please guide me to get rid from this nasty. Vivek

  12. I am also facing same problem. I won the 498a in high court. She appeal in SC. The date is not coming last one year.
    I was worked abroad. I went there after 8 months of marriage. My wife study Jammu, she left house after 8 days my house. I went there Jammu.

    She has affairs with her classmate. She come my house & went after 1 months.

    Her parents house she got T.B. and spinal tuberculosis. Her boyfriend ditch her.

    She filled 498a case after 2 year of seperation.

    Can I filled case against her parents and wife. She also filled 125.

  13. I am also facing same problem. I won the 498a in high court. She appeal in SC. The date is not coming last one year.
    I was worked abroad. I went there after 8 months of marriage. My wife study Jammu, she left house after 8 days my house. I went there Jammu.

    She has affairs with her classmate. She come my house & went after 1 months.

    Her parents house she got T.B. and spinal tuberculosis. Her boyfriend ditch her.

    She filled 498a case after 2 year of seperation.

    Can I filled case against her parents and wife. She also filled 125.

    How to get early hearing in SC.

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